One of KJF Partners’ Core Values is:
“We are driven by our personal commitment to create value for our investors, tenants, teammates and brokers.”
To serve our broker partners, we send occasional emails that focus on things that I have learned through my brokerage history or that I notice from my current role on the principal side of the business.
Brokerage is a very challenging business and overcoming fear is a major factor in becoming a successful broker.
I clearly recall my early years as a broker. It was a tough start for me; I did not make a dime until I was fourteen months into the business. If you’ve read my earlier topics, you may recall that I was on the verge of quitting the business and going back to my previous job in medical sales. I wasn’t making the calls I needed to make, I wasn’t closing for proposals, (most of you refer to them as BOV’s now), I wasn’t pushing through objections hard enough, and I wasn’t pushing hard enough for meetings. As I look back on those early days, I realize that there was one major reason that I was failing. The reason was FEAR! I created many excuses to avoid being honest with myself, but FEAR was my issue. Fear stopped me from consistently making enough calls necessary; Fear stopped me from closing, from challenging objections, from really pressing for listings etc.
We all have fears. I’m not going to psychoanalyze you, but I will share my fear with you. For quite a while, in my early days, I had a recurring thought that haunted me. I was afraid of looking or sounding stupid. I was absolutely certain that someone like me…very little real estate experience….lack of understanding of financial concepts…..lack of transactional experience….lack of a track record of my own…..lack of a deep understanding of cap rates, financing options, return on investment…leverage…positive leverage…negative leverage…. You name it and I did not think I knew enough about it. The big question I kept asking myself was some version of: “why would that successful investor or developer listen to someone like me?” “How could I create value for that millionaire?” “They will see right through me and hang up or kick me out of their office.” At times, that fear froze me. I didn’t think the business was for me. I thought I should quit. Gratefully, I did not!
Fear can be a good thing. It stops you from putting your hand in a fire and helps you avoid danger. It’s your friend during those times. When fear stops you from pursuing your dreams though, it is no longer your friend. I am a firm believer that your actions dictate your feelings. I learned that fear could exist AND I could make my calls, close for listings, answer objections and create value for people that may know a lot more than I did about real estate. I noticed that when I acknowledged the fear and then took the necessary actions to succeed, those feelings of inadequacy & fear relented. I imagined fear was a little guy, sitting on my right shoulder telling me that I wasn’t good enough. I actually turned my head, looked at that little guy and said, “I hear you and you will not stop me today.” I notice that little guy pops up from time to time but, luckily, he’s not a daily visitor.
A few things to remember:
Real estate has been great for me, but it hasn’t been easy. I’ve had to work hard, make sacrifices and, of course, push through fear. I would not categorize myself as extraordinary, but I have created some extraordinary results that benefit the many people that I care about. I’m sure I have many of the same fears that you do so, I know that if you are willing to push yourself, in spite of being afraid, to consistently take the actions that lead to success, you will achieve what you dream about.
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